My daughter is seven now and was born with spina bifida and it’s been a long journey full of pain, but also joy. The first nine months she had breath holding any time she’d get upset (which for a baby is all the time) so she was simultaneously the healthiest and least healthy baby in the NICU.
She’s wheelchair bound, but intellectually very sharp. Getting her a spinal shunt a few weeks after birth helped alleviate spinal fluid pressure in her brain, although it elevates scenarios of “kid has an headache” to “maybe we need to go to the ER at 3am in the worst snowstorm of the season”, but she’s extremely sociable and a light to everyone that meets her.
I’m glad work is being done that can mitigate this and improve quality of life for these children. She keeps asking me when she’ll get her robot legs and we tell her they have to test it out on adults first to make sure it’s safe! Exciting times for people with physical disabilities.
Hats off to everyone out there putting in the hours to make the lived experience of these folks much better than they would have otherwise been. If only we had more of you in the world.
Long ago, my next door neighbor's daughter had severe SB and was confined to a wheelchair, slow mental and emotion development, etc. Nobody thought she'd live, but in fact got to adulthood. It was basically a full-time job for her (single) mom.
- What's possible for medical professionals to do for certain conditions, in large part due to the amazing levels of investment into research and implementation.
- How difficult it is for ordinary people to receive care. Primarily due to private insurance companies intentionally making it more difficult to get care.
Like the fact we're giving stem cell therapy to fetuses successfully is amazing, yet any time I go to a doctor's office or bloodwork company I hear an elderly person explain to the front desk person that they've been on the same insurance for decades and only recently started receiving bills they can't afford, or listening to the front desk person explain that now medicare no longer covers them for a routine thing.
Ideally, we could have both great research _and_ great general care in this country. I just don't know if I will ever see that day.